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It took me a long time to get through this book.

It follows a 37-year-old divorced Mattie for four years following her split from her husband.  She’s dealing with the new wife, falling for a married guy, her mother’s increasing dementia, and her father’s secret that surfaces after his death.

It wasn’t bad.  I enjoy Lamott’s style, and the humor that I loved in Bird by Bird is found here.  I like stories that focus on the tragedies and bittersweet moments of day-to-day life. The mental downfall of her mother and the effects of it on Mattie and her brother are written beautifully and believably.

However, there’s no real drive.  There’s a twist with no twist.  The climax fails to peak satisfactorily, and I’m left feeling cheated.

I’ll try one more.

Pattern: Lace Rib Cap in Knit Simple Magazine, Holiday 2007

Yarn: Debbie Mumm in Beeswax

I made this hat once before for my sister, and I enjoyed the simple lace.  This time I modified the pattern to make a newborn size for my niece-to-be.  I made it to match the little cardigan I made earlier out of the same yarn.  The little sweater is simple without any embellishment, so I think a touch of lace will be sweet.

We never had many growing up.  I didn’t have any extended family nearby.  We simply didn’t celebrate much.

Now that I have my own place, I’m trying to start them.  This past Christmas included my first live tree.  I had everyone come over after a special church service, and we had (real) hot chocolate and arepas before opening gifts.

When discussing upcoming Easter plans, my sister and I asked each other, “What do people do for Easter?”  We were clueless.  There are no children to include, so all I figured was church and lunch at my house afterward.  What do people eat on Easter?

We decided to cook a traditional Colombian meal.  This meant some internet research, because – other than eating my grandmother’s food every 3-4 years – I have no experience.

The meal plan so far is ajiaco, rice w/avocado, buñuelos, and fried plantains.  I may make up some iced aguapanela.  Now all I need to do is change the recipe so that I can make the ajiaco in a slow cooker.  I don’t plan on spending 4 hours in the kitchen.

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My Happiness Project

1. Set a bedtime.
2. Make my bed every morning.
3. Always be reading something.
4. Move more.
5. Toss and organize.
6. Give proofs of love.
7. Leave the past.
8. Fight right.
9. Don't expect praise or appreciation.
10. Kiss more, hug more, touch more.
11. Aim higher.
12. Find some fun.
13. Ask for help.
14. Smile.
15. Realize it's possible.
16. Don't compare;be inspired.
17. Focus on what I have.
18. Beware of drift.
19. Take a chance.
20. Listen.
21. Be mindful.
22. Cultivate gratitude.
23. Spend out.
24. Do good, feel good.
25. Show up.
26. Have the courage to be imperfect.
27. Find joy in the ordinary.
28. Work smart.
29. Enjoy now.
30. Talk to strangers.
31. Go outside.
32. Start where I am.
33. Show up on time.
34. See art everyday.
35. Love with abandon.
36. Be colorful.
37. Dress the part.
38. Revel in accomplishments.
39. Learn something new.
40. Fear less.
41. Take pictures.
42. Speak with integrity.
43. Don't be critical about small things.
44. Manage my pain.
45. Surround myself with creative people.
46. Practice, practice, practice.
47. Don't force it.
48. Deal with something once.
49. Trust my instincts.
50. Avoid gossip.
51. Choose to see the best in people.
52. Take time to be silly.
53. Throw my own party.
54. Be a mentor.
55. Lean into my fears.
56. Find the others.
57. Do the unexpected.
58. Don't break the chain.
59. Do things others aren't.
60. Slow down.
61. Be cool with not being cool.
62. Be kinder than necessary and more generous than reasonable.
63. Pretend I'm good at it.
64. Keep in touch.
65. Row my own canoe.
66. Do what only you can do.
67. If it doesn't work out, find something that does.
68. Dream bigger.
69. Notice what's right.
70. Stop talking. Start doing.
71. When in doubt, choose laughter.
72. Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
73. Respect everyone.
74. Be early.
75. Delete the unnecessary.

Three Simple Rules

1. If you do not GO after what you want, you will never have it.
2. If you do not ASK, the answer will always be no.
3. If you do not MOVE forward, you will always be in the same place.

Decisions, decisions…

Ten years from now, what will I wish I had done?

All I Need

1. Someone to love.
2. Something to do.
3. Something to hope for.

Cannonball Read 2013

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Countries I’ve Visited

Mexico
Colombia
Thailand
Vietnam
Bermuda (British territory)

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