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Welcome to Airworld…

Ryan Bingham is a Career Transition Counselor – a fancy title for someone whose job is to smooth the firing process by “coaching people to understand job loss  as an opportunity for personal and spiritual growth.”  Bingham is a salesman.  A motivational speaker.  A brain washer.His job requires travel.  A lot of travel.  So much that Bingham sees the planes, airports, and hotels as home.  Especially now as we find him divorced and technically homeless.

He is always insisting he’s happy with his  life, though the constant defense of his lifestyle rings false.  His seemingly only goal is to reach a million flyer miles before leaving his current job for another company.  A mystery company for he doesn’t even know what they do.  He doesn’t have many relationships to speak of: co-workers; the staff of airlines, airports, and hotels; and family.  A family who is never sure what he does or where he is.

After having seen the trailers for the movie, I kept waiting for Anna Kendrick’s character to show up.  About halfway through the book I realized that Anna Kendrick was the reader.  The entire novel is first person – Ryan Bingham’s narration of his life to the reader.  In order to translate that to film, Bingham needs someone to share his secrets.

This book was of particularly good timing as I read it during a 10-hr layover in Tokyo.  It was a quick read, but soon forgotten.  None of the characters are very likeable.  Ryan Bingham is a fast talker, capable of rationalizing all behaviors.  He is an expert at reading people, for people are his business.

One of my favorites of his observations:

“The lines we draw that make us who we are potent by virtue of being nonnegotiable, and even, at some level, indefensible… To apologize for your personal absolutes… means apologizing for your very existence.”

My brother (after some commercial): If someone tries to get you to send them naked pictures, just say no.

Me: I reserve the right to say maybe.

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My Happiness Project

1. Set a bedtime.
2. Make my bed every morning.
3. Always be reading something.
4. Move more.
5. Toss and organize.
6. Give proofs of love.
7. Leave the past.
8. Fight right.
9. Don't expect praise or appreciation.
10. Kiss more, hug more, touch more.
11. Aim higher.
12. Find some fun.
13. Ask for help.
14. Smile.
15. Realize it's possible.
16. Don't compare;be inspired.
17. Focus on what I have.
18. Beware of drift.
19. Take a chance.
20. Listen.
21. Be mindful.
22. Cultivate gratitude.
23. Spend out.
24. Do good, feel good.
25. Show up.
26. Have the courage to be imperfect.
27. Find joy in the ordinary.
28. Work smart.
29. Enjoy now.
30. Talk to strangers.
31. Go outside.
32. Start where I am.
33. Show up on time.
34. See art everyday.
35. Love with abandon.
36. Be colorful.
37. Dress the part.
38. Revel in accomplishments.
39. Learn something new.
40. Fear less.
41. Take pictures.
42. Speak with integrity.
43. Don't be critical about small things.
44. Manage my pain.
45. Surround myself with creative people.
46. Practice, practice, practice.
47. Don't force it.
48. Deal with something once.
49. Trust my instincts.
50. Avoid gossip.
51. Choose to see the best in people.
52. Take time to be silly.
53. Throw my own party.
54. Be a mentor.
55. Lean into my fears.
56. Find the others.
57. Do the unexpected.
58. Don't break the chain.
59. Do things others aren't.
60. Slow down.
61. Be cool with not being cool.
62. Be kinder than necessary and more generous than reasonable.
63. Pretend I'm good at it.
64. Keep in touch.
65. Row my own canoe.
66. Do what only you can do.
67. If it doesn't work out, find something that does.
68. Dream bigger.
69. Notice what's right.
70. Stop talking. Start doing.
71. When in doubt, choose laughter.
72. Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
73. Respect everyone.
74. Be early.
75. Delete the unnecessary.

Three Simple Rules

1. If you do not GO after what you want, you will never have it.
2. If you do not ASK, the answer will always be no.
3. If you do not MOVE forward, you will always be in the same place.

Decisions, decisions…

Ten years from now, what will I wish I had done?

All I Need

1. Someone to love.
2. Something to do.
3. Something to hope for.

Cannonball Read 2013

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Upcoming Reads

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Countries I’ve Visited

Mexico
Colombia
Thailand
Vietnam
Bermuda (British territory)

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