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All the Pretty Horses is a novel about a teenager in the late 1940′s  who sets off to Mexico with his friend.   John Grady Cole is the product of generations of Texas ranchers; ranching is what he knows and does best.   His grandfather has just died, his parents are separated, and he finds himself cut off from the life he always imagined for himself.  He ventures across the border in search of a new life.

He travels with his friend Lacey Rawlins.  Together they meet a young teen who calls himself Jimmy Blevins  and allow the boy to travel with them.  This decision colors the rest of the events of the novel and leads to tragic situations.  Their friendship and the loyalty that accompanies it is tested again and again.

The friendship between Cole and Rawlins may be one of the best male bonds I’ve seen portrayed.  Their personalities clash.  They often disagree.  They have sparse conversations about deeper matters such as love and God.  It isn’t overly sentimental but rather matter of fact.  I am a man.  That is my horse.  You are my friend.  I won’t quit you. Again and again, I won’t quit you.  Even when one disagrees with the other.  Even when it puts one in danger.  I won’t quit you.  A similar line was more recently made famous in the movie Brokeback Mountain, but I found it much more moving here. Here it is self-less.

Cole finds himself falling for the beautiful, blue-eyed daughter of a Mexican ranch owner.  Their affair is  passionate ,star-crossed, and another source of discord between Cole and Rawlins.

What I found most astonishing throughout the whole novel was how young the boys were.  16-years-old.  I would keep forgetting as I read along through the hardship, the tragedies, the frightening danger, murder, the love gained, and the love lost.  It seems so adult.  In a modern society where adolescence extends well into the mid-twenties, the maturity of Cole is impressive.

I don’t know that my 16-year-old self would have stood a chance in the same situations.  I do know that I wouldn’t have had any trouble saying yes to Mr. John Grady Cole.  Rowr.  Move over Mr. Darcy.  We have a new literary crush to add to the list.

*Yes, I know he’s only 16-years-old now.  This was the first novel of McCarthy’s Border triology.  I understand that Cole reappears in the third novel as an older man.  So there.

**You can see my review on Pajiba here.

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My Happiness Project

1. Set a bedtime.
2. Make my bed every morning.
3. Always be reading something.
4. Move more.
5. Toss and organize.
6. Give proofs of love.
7. Leave the past.
8. Fight right.
9. Don't expect praise or appreciation.
10. Kiss more, hug more, touch more.
11. Aim higher.
12. Find some fun.
13. Ask for help.
14. Smile.
15. Realize it's possible.
16. Don't compare;be inspired.
17. Focus on what I have.
18. Beware of drift.
19. Take a chance.
20. Listen.
21. Be mindful.
22. Cultivate gratitude.
23. Spend out.
24. Do good, feel good.
25. Show up.
26. Have the courage to be imperfect.
27. Find joy in the ordinary.
28. Work smart.
29. Enjoy now.
30. Talk to strangers.
31. Go outside.
32. Start where I am.
33. Show up on time.
34. See art everyday.
35. Love with abandon.
36. Be colorful.
37. Dress the part.
38. Revel in accomplishments.
39. Learn something new.
40. Fear less.
41. Take pictures.
42. Speak with integrity.
43. Don't be critical about small things.
44. Manage my pain.
45. Surround myself with creative people.
46. Practice, practice, practice.
47. Don't force it.
48. Deal with something once.
49. Trust my instincts.
50. Avoid gossip.
51. Choose to see the best in people.
52. Take time to be silly.
53. Throw my own party.
54. Be a mentor.
55. Lean into my fears.
56. Find the others.
57. Do the unexpected.
58. Don't break the chain.
59. Do things others aren't.
60. Slow down.
61. Be cool with not being cool.
62. Be kinder than necessary and more generous than reasonable.
63. Pretend I'm good at it.
64. Keep in touch.
65. Row my own canoe.
66. Do what only you can do.
67. If it doesn't work out, find something that does.
68. Dream bigger.
69. Notice what's right.
70. Stop talking. Start doing.
71. When in doubt, choose laughter.
72. Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
73. Respect everyone.
74. Be early.
75. Delete the unnecessary.

Three Simple Rules

1. If you do not GO after what you want, you will never have it.
2. If you do not ASK, the answer will always be no.
3. If you do not MOVE forward, you will always be in the same place.

Decisions, decisions…

Ten years from now, what will I wish I had done?

All I Need

1. Someone to love.
2. Something to do.
3. Something to hope for.

Cannonball Read 2013

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Upcoming Reads

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Countries I’ve Visited

Mexico
Colombia
Thailand
Vietnam
Bermuda (British territory)

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